It can also be just as bad if he puts his friends before you. Im just sick of it. If youve tried this, and your insecurities go beyond just not being a priority, then maybe youre wondering if he loves you at all. Many partners split this conflict. Its natural for a man to care deeply for his mother. He never defends me even when it comes to his exs that have caused trouble, his friend that was rude to me. My mom and sister would come before anyone, including a spouse. They will talk you through conflict, improve the bond the two of you share and give you tips to open up those lines of communication. Think about any disagreements youve had recently did any of them get resolved? Shifting your husband's attitude so that you become the focal point of his life isn't nearly as hard as you may believe that it is. If he opts for the MIL, you know you have a problem. Renegotiate your commitments to make sure youre both on the same page. There are two emotions that you are probably holding onto that may be pushing your spouse into the arms (and eventually the bed) OF SOMEONE ELSE. The tricky part is that some people dont even see boundaries at all and others are so rigid about them. Should The Husbands Family Take Precedence Over The Wife? //